Another Monday Night Special

Well, folks, here's the thing about working as a bartender in the city. There's always someone looking to spice up their life, and by that, I mean every night is an open invitation for some weird requests and even weirder conversations. Last week was a doozy, this one guy comes in, orders his usual scotch neat, then starts going on about how he's been having these fantasies where he 'disciplines' someone... as if it’s the most normal thing to bring up over drinks at two AM. I listened politely for a bit (hey, I'm just here to pour and keep people happy), but when he mentioned wanting to try something with a bit of age-play involved? Yeah, I had to make a polite exit. Not because it's not my scene or anything, I'm all about experimenting in my personal life, but there’s just that line between 'casual conversation' and 'need-to-know-your-bartender-details' that some folks seem to miss. So here’s the thing: is it normal for someone to be this specific with their kinks over a drink, or am I just out of touch? Would you feel comfortable if the person pouring your gin tonic suddenly asked about your deepest fantasies? Thoughts appreciated.