new to this...

so yeah i started playing around with dd/lg stuff recently and it's kinda crazy how into it i am. met this older guy at the bar, we clicked right away, and next thing i know we're talking about these kink things and he was like yea let's do it. felt really shy but also super turned on, you know? went home with him and just let go... all the rules and stuff were fun to follow, kind of felt like letting go of my adult responsibilities for a bit. haven't done it since but thinking about trying again soon. still figuring out what exactly i want from this, but it's been so exciting