Exploring My New Single Life

I recently ended a relationship and started getting into kink again... met someone online who likes playing the dominant role, and we've been experimenting with different scenarios... last night was particularly intense though... she had this whole setup for me as if I were in trouble... it was really uncomfortable but strangely thrilling... now I'm wondering if I overstepped somewhere... I mean, it felt wrong at the time but also exciting... can't stop thinking about it... maybe I need to back off a bit? Or is there more exploration ahead?