Caregiving Beyond Labels

I've been taking care of my partner in a way that defies typical labels. We've created our own dynamic where I'm the caregiver, guiding them through life's ups and downs with strict rules and loving discipline. It started as a mutual agreement to explore this side of intimacy, both of us finding immense pleasure in the balance of power it offers. Last night, after a particularly trying day for them, we revisited our protocol, something about enforcing those rules when they need it most brings an intense connection that's hard to replicate elsewhere. We ended up in their room, me on my knees as I cleaned and cared for every inch of their body, from head to toe. It was intimate and thorough, leaving no part untouched. The physicality is the cherry on top, but the emotional support we offer each other is at the heart of it all. Can anyone relate to this level of devotion and care?