Just Figuring It Out

So yeah, I'm this guy in my thirties who just got into DDLG stuff. Not sure how to put it all together yet but damn it's interesting and kinda exciting. Yesterday was the first time with my partner where we really went for it. She wore a cute dress like she was going back to school or something, and I had this belt ready for discipline scenes. It felt weird but also exhilarating, you know? We talked about it beforehand and set clear boundaries and stuff, which made me feel more comfortable when things got intense during the scene. Her acting all little and innocent while I gave her a firm swat was... different than anything else we've done before. But hey, if she's happy with it and into this too then that's what matters right? I'm still figuring out my role here but man, I'm hooked.