A New Start?

Since the divorce, I've found myself seeking a new kind of relationship that isn't just about companionship. After much reflection and counseling, I decided to explore Domination/ submission dynamics as a way to address my emotional needs from a more structured perspective. I started looking for someone who could be both supportive and in control, offering guidance without the usual romantic entanglements. It's been liberating to have someone assert rules and boundaries that actually make me feel secure rather than stifled. We've only met a few times, but already there are changes - my bedroom is now adorned with elements reflecting this new dynamic, and our sessions include playful punishments and rewards designed to challenge and reassure at the same time. I'm curious if others have found similar approaches beneficial for moving past difficult transitions in life? Am I on track, or should I be seeking a different type of relationship altogether?