caught off guard

just last night i was bartendin and this girl comes up to me all flirty but she’s like the kind who seems into kinks and stuff so we start talkin light shit but it got real fast cuz she told me her secret fantasy and next thing i know my hand is in her hair pullin her close and i’m telling her how much i wanna take care of her, keep her safe and play that role...it was like a switch flipped inside me. didn’t even think about it til now but man i need advice or something to figure out if this is normal