Forgot To Empty The Ashtrays

I've been in my DD role for a couple weeks now and things have been going great. I really enjoy the structure it gives to our relationship. But yesterday, after coming home late from work, I got lazy and forgot to empty the ashtrays like I was told to do. It’s such a small thing compared to everything else we’ve tried so far, but there’s something about breaking that rule and disappointing him that really gets under my skin. Today when he brought it up, I felt this mix of guilt and arousal that made me squirm inside. It's funny how even the smallest things can feel like such a big deal in this dynamic.