The Pillow Talk Admission

So, there I was, my partner and I had been together for almost two years now. We've got a pretty solid relationship, lots of trust, the works. But this past week, something weird happened. I found myself sneaking into a BDSM subreddit on the sly, looking at stuff that made me squirm in both good ways and bad. It was like I knew there was something I should do about it but didn't know what or how to start. Then last night, we were just talking pillow talk, usual boring stuff - work stress, movie plans for the weekend, all that jazz. I had this urge though, felt compelled really, to tell her my little secret. So I did. I said something like 'Hey, so there's this kink of mine I've been meaning to mention...'. She paused a moment before she just laughed and went with it too. Turns out she has thoughts about DDLG too. Not quite sure how far we want to go but the fact that we both are curious feels kind of freeing. We're not gonna run off and whip each other or anything, just exploring our minds in a new way. It's funny though, it felt like such a huge deal admitting something I hadn't even fully realized myself yet. But now here I am telling you all about it. And that's the long story of how me and my partner found this little secret between us. Guess we both just needed to stop bottling up those weird fantasies we've had for each other and see where they lead.