admitting my naughty secret

i never thought i'd admit this to anyone but here goes. i recently realized that being the daddy in a ddlg dynamic turns me on like nothing else, even though i’m in my fifties and supposed to be all grown up. it’s not just about spanking or punishing, though there’s something about doling out punishment that gets my blood pumping, but also the nurturing side of it, giving guidance and protecting this younger person who looks up to me. they’re a grown woman too but for whatever reason this dynamic clicks with us. i’m curious if other people think like this, or if it’s just me being weird. what do you all think? is there something wrong with enjoying the role of authority in an adult relationship when it’s consensual and both parties get off on it?