When Mommy Got a New Daddy

I just got divorced after three years of marriage. Now I'm back to being single and taking care of my kids alone again. The funny part is, I've been finding myself drawn towards this DDLG stuff lately. It started as a way to cope with the stress, just daydreaming about it at first. Then one night, while talking to some friends online in a DD chatroom (yes, those exist), I ended up meeting someone who actually seemed down for real-life roleplay and mentorship. We set boundaries of course, but there was an instant connection that surprised us both. I mean, don't get me wrong, this isn't about being needy or anything like that, it's more like a way to reclaim some independence and maybe have someone in my life who's not just there for the kids. But here I am confessing this because, well, is anyone else out there doing something similar? And if so, how do you deal with boundaries without letting things get too complicated?