just figuring it out

so yeah i'm new to this whole ddg thing, started a month ago. my dom is like 10 years older than me and he's really into making sure i follow rules even for silly stuff. last night we had a dinner date at this fancy place and when the waiter brought us bread before the meal, he told me no carbs till dessert. i felt kinda stupid not eating it but i tried to obey because... you know, i'm still trying to understand what makes sense in this dynamic. oh well, learning curve is real.