Post-Divorce Reflections in DDLG Land

So, yeah, got divorced last month after my husband decided he wanted to be a puppy more than a daddy. Figured why not join him? I mean, what's a better way to explore your own kinks than with the person who left you for someone else’s fantasy anyway? So here I am, mommying myself through this whole thing. It was funny how quickly it all turned around. One day we're watching Netflix and cuddling like everything is fine, next thing you know he's telling me about his new puppy collar that some guy on the internet made for him. And then one day he just vanished without a word. Found out later he had packed up to move in with this dog-lover from his kink community. Didn't even have the decency to leave anything behind. Anyway, after everything, I kind of felt like maybe taking on that role myself could help me heal somehow. Not exactly what happened between us, but... I don't know, felt weird not having someone else tell me how wonderful and capable I am when it's just me figuring things out now. So here I am trying to be both sides, the caring mommy making sure everything is alright with my 'boyfriend', only this time it's all in my head. I still like DDLG stuff, don't get me wrong. Just didn't think it'd end up being about me finding myself instead of playing pretend with someone else anymore. Kinda funny how things work out sometimes.