Just Figuring It Out...

So uh... I've been trying out this DDLG thing with one of my clients. We're both adults, totally consensual... She's a lot younger than me and it’s kinda fun being in control for once. But like... sometimes I get all flustered and lose track of things. Is that normal? Am I doing something wrong or is this just part of the learning curve? Any tips on keeping it chill and professional, but still playful...?