caregiving 101

so like i started this thing with my partner last month and it's been so intense and fun but also kinda confusing at times. we kind of play this role where they look to me for everything, even the littlest things. like asking if they can have a snack or what clothes to wear. it feels really good though, giving them all the attention and care. plus i mean we do some pretty explicit stuff too. there's lots of cuddling, kissing, spanking...all with this dynamic where they're totally relying on me for everything. i'm wondering if anyone else has done something like this? or if maybe i should read up more before taking it further? what do you all think?