New to DDLG and Figuring Out Boundaries

I've been single for about two months now after my long-term relationship ended. I'm trying to figure out what I really want in life, which includes exploring some of the more unconventional things I’ve read about online. So yeah, I started looking into DDLG dynamics because it seemed interesting and kinda like something I’d be into. I made contact with someone from an online forum who was willing to chat and explain a bit more about the lifestyle. They were kind enough to guide me through some of the basics, like what different roles mean and how to approach things consensually and safely. We agreed on meeting up for coffee one day just to talk. The meeting went well, but we also decided to take it further pretty quickly. I'm not sure if that was my eagerness showing or if they really felt the same way about me. We ended up having a short session at their place later that evening, it wasn’t very elaborate, but it gave us both an idea of where things might go. Since then, we've had a few more meetings and I'm still trying to figure out my limits and what feels right for me. It’s been a bit confusing balancing the excitement with figuring out if this is something I really want in the long term. Writing this makes it seem like there's some kind of problem or drama when it's just me feeling a bit lost about where all this is going. Anyway, thought I'd share since this has been on my mind a lot lately. Any advice from anyone out there who's been through something similar would be really appreciated.