just starting out

ok so i'm like super new to all this dom stuff and im kinda figuring it out as i go. first time i met my girl was at a meetup, she was real cute in her little outfit and i just got curious ya know? we talked for a bit, then i invited her back to the hotel room and yeah, things happened there. its like a mix of fun games and being more serious when she wants me to be bossy. its kinda wild trying to figure out how much i should take charge vs listening to what she likes. but it was all good fun and we both enjoyed ourselves tons. no biggie if this doesn't make sense, im still learning too lol