Just Another Failed Marriage Statistic

So I got divorced this year and found out I like being spanked. Yeah, yeah, it's not exactly a secret anymore that DDLG can be more than just an escape fantasy for adults. My ex-husband wasn't into the whole 'father knows best' thing in bed, or outside of it, and here I am, trying to figure out if I actually need someone telling me what to do or if this is all just a phase. Lately, I've been sneaking off to meet with this guy who's like... an older authority figure but also my partner. We talk about stuff before we get physical, and it’s intense. He makes me sit on his lap, tells me how naughty I’ve been for thinking of him when I'm not around. The spanking is harsh enough to leave marks, but it feels so good afterward that I never really mind the pain. It's crazy how this has become my escape from reality, and yet here we are, both adults in our thirties playing pretend at something neither of us ever had as actual kids. So yeah, just another divorce statistic with a kinky twist.