A Duty Callled Off

I'm a military spouse, playing Mommy for my submissive partner when my husband's away. It's not typical, but it suits us. We set boundaries, maintain professionalism outside our intimate sessions. Last night, I felt an odd mix of power and vulnerability. He needs guidance, direction, just like the kids do from me. How do you balance authority with care in a relationship that isn't familial? Share your thoughts.