Confessions of a Barista

I recently discovered that I have this strange kink for dominance. It started innocuously enough, but as it grew stronger, so did my need to explore it. Every time I feel overwhelmed by the stress of my job or life in general, I find myself daydreaming about being told exactly what to do. The idea of submitting completely and having someone else take care of everything is incredibly liberating and comforting to me. It's like a mental escape from all the chaos around me. I've never acted on these feelings yet, partly out of fear, partly because I didn't even realize it was a kink until recently. But now that I know, how do others deal with such intense desires? Do you find ways to satisfy them within a healthy relationship dynamic or keep them private and unexplored? Any advice for someone just beginning to understand this part of themselves?