a night out turned into a serious talk

so last night i was workin late, havent been home much lately. my boyfriend wanted to meet up but i said no cus tired. we talked later tho and he asked if somethin was wrong. i explained about how im dealing with little stuff again after years of not doing it. its not that i dont love the roleplay and being a mommy, its more like doin too much headspace now when i wanna stay grown up. idk if hes okay with me taking time off or need to set some ground rules for when we can be in littlespace. thoughts?