i did a small no-no

so i was at the base today and my bf's commanding officer gave us this big list of rules about our dynamic. it’s kinda strict but mostly just about respect and following through on the stuff we talked about, you know? anyway, there was one rule that said if he tells me to do something, like go take a walk or run an errand, i gotta do it right away and not put it off. it’s all part of this little game we play where he's in charge and i’m the one who follows orders. well, today, i kinda screwed up. he told me to go pick up groceries for dinner since it was late and the stores were closing soon. but then my phone went off with a notification about something funny from my friend, and i started chatting instead of going out. i know i shouldn’t have but honestly, sometimes i just don't feel like following through on those chores or errands. he found out too because when he came home and saw the empty fridge and no groceries in the bags by the door, he asked where they were. at first, i was all defensive and said i thought we could just order in instead, but then i copped to it eventually, i told him straight up that i skipped going because my phone distracted me. he gave me this look like “really? you knew better” which kinda made me feel bad even though i wasn’t doing anything actually wrong or dangerous. so now we have to talk about trust and respecting the rules, but honestly it’s just a silly little thing that happened. still feels like something worth confessing though, maybe because these dynamics are new to me and i’m trying to get them right.