Just A Quick Kink Session With My Long Distance Partner

So, yeah, I recently got out of a long-term relationship and just kind of fell into this new thing with my ex-girlfriend's best friend. We've been keeping it all casual for now but there’s something about her that makes me feel... different. Like how she knows exactly what to do to get me going in ways no one else has before. And, you know, we were talking on the phone one day and just started flirting again after a long time apart. Next thing I knew, it was getting late and we both agreed to set up a video call for something special. I mean, it wasn’t anything too crazy - no extreme stuff or anything like that - but there’s this whole side of me that has always enjoyed a bit of kinkiness in the bedroom. Being a little more submissive is one of those things I've always found exciting but never had the chance to really explore before. So we set up, and it was just... wow. We both went for our first time together playing out this dynamic I’ve only ever read about or watched online. She sent me an email with a list of items she wanted me to have ready: some restraints (but nothing extreme), candles in the room, soft music going - all these little things that were supposed to help set the mood. It was exciting knowing what was coming and also kind of nerve-wracking because I'd never been in this situation before. When we started the call, she took charge right away, telling me exactly what she wanted from me and guiding everything along as if she knew just what my body needed even when I didn't. We talked a bit about rules beforehand - like no biting or hitting - but it was all clear and consensual, no room for misunderstandings. There's this part where she blindfolded me and had me lie down on the bed while she did some light spanking, which turned out to be something I hadn't expected. It hurt in a good way though, pushing my boundaries just enough without ever going too far. We kept talking throughout - about what felt right or wrong, how we both wanted more. It was really intense but also incredibly intimate at the same time. She made sure everything felt safe and consensual for me all along, and by the end of it, I couldn't stop thinking about wanting to do this again soon because there's definitely something special happening between us.