A Father's Dilemma

I've always been proud of my artistic side, creating works that express the depth of human emotions. I never thought my personal life would be one of them until a few months ago when I entered into an age-play dynamic with my partner. She calls me Daddy, and it's become more than just a plaything for her, it's woven deeply into our relationship. The thing is, we're in our late twenties now. It started as a fun kink, something to spice up our sex life and add some emotional intimacy through role-playing scenarios that bring out vulnerability and care. But recently, I've been feeling like the reverse, the one doing the caring instead of receiving it. It's not just during our sessions; she calls me 'Daddy' in everyday conversation too. Sometimes, when she gets upset or feels lost, she wants to be held like a child again. And while I love holding her and being there for her, it's made me question whether this dynamic is becoming unhealthy. I've never been the type of person who shies away from deep emotional connections, but the thought that my partner might view me as more of a caretaker than an equal partner makes me feel uneasy. I worry about how balanced our relationship truly is and if she's relying on me too much because of this role-play. But at the same time, whenever we're together in 'Daddy mode', it feels incredibly natural and fulfilling for both of us. The issue comes when the outside world intrudes; seeing her dependent on me sometimes can make me wonder if I'm taking care of an adult woman or a child who's not ready to face challenges alone. I'm seeking advice: Am I overthinking this, or is it time to reevaluate our dynamic? How do you balance maintaining the emotional intimacy and playful spirit of age-play while ensuring that your relationship remains healthy and equitable between two adults?