Newfound Power Trip

Caretaking my partner feels like a secret superpower. I set strict limits for bedtime or meal times, and they comply eagerly, even thanking me sweetly. Last night, enforcing a curfew felt so exhilarating! But is it weird that I get such an adrenaline rush from this dynamic? Am I being too controlling or should I embrace my caregiver role more? What do you all think?