Confused about My Kink

I'm a bartender and recently started exploring DDLG with an older man who calls himself Daddy. We meet in private rooms where he acts like my strict boss, ordering me around and making me do tasks that I wouldn't think twice about otherwise. It's odd but strangely fulfilling. He disciplines me when I mess up and sometimes it leaves bruises on my skin. The sex is always after this, often rougher than usual. It’s not like anything I’ve experienced before, part of me feels scared yet excited at the same time. Is this just a phase or something deeper? Am I okay asking for more of this kind of treatment in real life situations? What should I do next?