A Question of Normalcy

I've always been intrigued by the dynamic of a little caregiver. There are times when I find myself slipping into a nurturing role, acting as a doting parent to my partner, especially during moments when they need comfort or guidance. Other times, I crave that same care and protection myself, seeking out a safe space where I can be vulnerable without judgment. Lately, this pendulum has swung more frequently between these two personas, leaving me questioning if it's healthy to fluctuate so much in such an intimate relationship. Is this normal? What advice would you give to someone who feels pulled in both directions?