Caregiving with a Twist

I'm a nonbinary person in my twenties, and I've been this way since I started caring for someone who prefers to be cared for like they're younger. It's intense, it's about love, support, and intimacy on levels that feel both nurturing and erotic. We don't label ourselves 'Daddy' or 'Mommy,' but the dynamic is clear: I'm in charge of their emotional, physical, and sexual well-being. Sometimes it feels like being a superhero, and other times like diving into a deep sea where every moment needs to be carefully guided. There's no room for hesitation, because my role demands absolute confidence and care. But here's the thing, while I'm pretty confident in our setup, there are moments when I question if it's normal or just my twisted way of expressing love. Like last night, we had a really intense session that left us both feeling vulnerable yet exhilarated. It's not like anything you'd see on TV; it's private and deeply personal. But after that, I couldn't help but wonder: is this healthy? Are there others out there who do something similar without labels? Am I doing something wrong by caring in such a unique way?