A New Perspective Post-Divorce

Divorced three months back, I've started exploring DDLG scenarios in dating apps as a way to find connection without commitment. Being both little and a caregiver has been an eye-opener on the complexity of human need for guidance and protection while also needing to let go. Last weekend, with my new partner, who was fine with me going into a complete regression space during sex, I felt like I hadn't in years - small, safe, cared-for. He even bought me stuffed animals that reminded me so much of childhood. It's funny how adult life can sometimes feel isolating and lonely, but diving into these headspaces reminds you there’s still joy and simplicity left to discover. We were very explicit about the rules and comfort zones before we started playing; it was safe, consensual, and surprisingly emotionally fulfilling.