confession from behind the bar

so i work at a pretty chill local bar and one night this girl walks in who looks like she’s in her early twenties. we start talking and it turns out shes super into care dynamics but likes to keep things kinda low key. so after some drinks and chatting, she asks if i want to try something with her. needless to say im surprised but flattered. we head upstairs where she has a room reserved, and well... let’s just say it was one hell of an experience. the whole time she’s playing the part of this little girl needing guidance while i’m sorta filling in as some kind of caregiver or guardian figure. sounds weird right? but it felt oddly intimate and real at the same time. anyway, im just wondering if anyone else has had something similar or knows how common this is