just got out of a relationship

yeah so i was with this guy for like 2 years and we were good but he couldn't deal with the fact that im mommy type person you know? i mean id take care of him cook clean for us all the time and stuff but eventually it just felt one sided. one day we had a big fight and he said he needed space and then boom ended up breaking up. its been like 3 weeks now and im still trying to figure out my place without being in this role anymore. i mean it was fun at first to be the bossy one but it got tiring. missed him though sometimes.