Single Again and Playful

Well, after my recent divorce, I've started exploring some playful kink with a younger partner. We dip into mommy/daddy dynamics now and then, it’s surprisingly freeing to be in charge again after years of marriage. I mean, who knew being the disciplinarian was so invigorating? Anyhow, I’m wondering if others find this kind of roleplay helps them transition out of serious relationships or is just a phase. What do you think? Is it normal to crave control and guidance after years of compromise?