Muse and Mentor in a Dance of Discipline

So, I've been playing an interesting role with my partner lately. It started as just supporting her creatively, you know, like how a muse should be. But then she wanted to take our dynamic further... into something that's hard to explain without sounding crazy. I'm not her Daddy or anything formal like that, but I kind of became this figure who guides her through life's challenges with a mix of strictness and care. It feels weird putting it down here on paper because even in my head, it's a bit surreal. Anyway, we've been exploring this idea where she lets me make decisions for her or set rules around certain things, all consensual and clear about the boundaries. For instance, there are days when I tell her to put away her art and focus on chores instead, just because. Or sometimes she'll ask for my guidance on a creative project but expects that following my advice comes with some kind of playful discipline if it doesn't go well. I'm not going to lie, the control is intoxicating, and seeing her in this space where I've got this influence over her choices... it's powerful. There are times when she's frustrated or lashes out a bit because it can feel restrictive (even though we both know there's no real restriction unless she wants it). And that’s the tricky part, how do you balance fun and play with setting clear limits? So, here I am asking you all: is this something others experience too? Do people find value in such a nuanced relationship where guidance becomes more directive yet still consensual between adults who want this kind of complexity? It feels like it's on the edge of normalcy but also firmly within a gray area that makes me question if I'm doing everything right. Any thoughts, anyone? Maybe someone else has walked this path and can offer some wisdom?