first time domme stuff

hey all i'm new here and still figuring out how to write this kind of stuff but i'll try my best ok. so i just started dating this guy named jake we've been seeing each other for a few months now and it's going really well he's super nice and sweet like most guys aren't anymore. so last night we were at his place hanging out watching movies drinking some wine and stuff and the mood got pretty romantic but before things got too serious i had to tell him something important about me. see i've always been interested in bdsm stuff but never found anyone who was willing to try it with me until now. i wasn't sure if jake would be into it or not so i wanted to make sure we were on the same page first. surprisingly he said yes and that he's curious too! we talked about what kinds of things we might want to explore but nothing extreme just some light spanking and stuff like that as a warm up. i decided to give him his first taste right there at my place, after all it was my turn to pick the location for us this week so i took full control. i made him sit on my bed and told him to bend over and put his hands through the bars of the headboard. he did as i said and i started spanking him real light at first but then gradually harder as we both got into it more. his ass was getting red and when he stood up again he had a big grin on his face telling me how good it felt and that i should do it more often. i told him to get ready for round two but this time he wanted to switch roles and try being the one in control which made me really happy because it means we can explore both sides of things together and learn from each other as we go on our journey.