Detached Desire

I'm a stay-at-home parent of two young children, but my personal life has taken an unexpected turn. I've recently discovered a penchant for more explicit kink that doesn't fit neatly into any traditional DDLG roles. It's not about power exchange or strict rules - it's purely about the physical act and the intense sensations. For instance, engaging in bondage with my partner, using blindfolds and restraints to explore new limits, has been incredibly liberating and exciting for both of us. But I find myself questioning if this is a normal part of being married and settled or if it stems from some deeper need I haven't fully explored yet. What do others think? Is it common to crave such explicit experiences when the rest of your life feels quite conventional?