i messed up big time

so my partner and i have been playing this daddy little girl thing for a while now. we've had a lot of fun with it, you know? she's super into it too. but there was one night when things got really intense. i kinda lost control of myself and i started pushing her boundaries more than i shoulda. at first, she said no but then... well, let's just say i wasn't being the best daddy could be. i ended up doing stuff that made her feel uncomfortable, even scared a bit. we haven't talked about it much since then, but i can tell there's something between us now. i'm so worried that what happened might have ruined everything. i don't wanna lose this person in my life over some stupid mistake. hope someone out there has been through something similar and maybe understands how i feel.