Caregiver Dynamics

I've been this college student's caregiver for a while now. We don't use labels but there’s something about taking care of them, making sure they’re eating and sleeping well, that turns me on in ways I can’t explain. It feels odd to admit, especially when it crosses into fantasies where I enforce bedtime or schoolwork, like I’m not just helping out, but disciplining. Maybe this is about control? Or nurturing?