My First Play Date

I started this a few weeks ago, just after finishing my first year of grad school. It was an online connection, and we talked for days about our interests in DDLG play. He's older, very experienced, and I wanted to learn from him. We agreed to meet at a hotel room near campus. The day arrived, and I felt nervous but excited as I made my way there. When I entered the room, he was waiting with a big smile, offering me tea and snacks like a real dad would do for his child. He showed me how it feels to be completely cared for, giving me space to express myself openly. It was more than just role-play; it was about understanding each other deeply, supporting one another’s needs. It felt so safe there, and we explored boundaries gently with lots of checks-in along the way. By the end, I felt like a new person, more confident in who I am and what I want out of these kinds of experiences.