Confused About This New Kink - Seeking Guidance

Anonymous Sleepy Doll #735 · General Confessions

Hi everyone, I’m a college student and relatively new to the kink world. Recently, I’ve been experimenting with a dynamic that’s making me question everything, DDLG (Daddy Dom/Little Girl). It started when my partner, Alex, suggested we try something different for our upcoming anniversary. We decided on this because we both wanted to spice things up and explore new territories in our relationship. So there I was, getting ready for the event, feeling excited yet nervous. When Alex came home from work that day, he was dressed up like a businessman, tie, jacket, everything sharp and professional. He looked at me with those piercing eyes and said, “Come here, Little One,” and it just felt...different. It made my heart race in ways I’ve never experienced before. We started off slowly; Alex explained the rules of this new dynamic he wanted to introduce, basically, he would take on a parental role where I’d be his little girl who needed guidance. Initially, I resisted, but there was something about his authority and confidence that drew me in. We spent hours talking through our boundaries and making sure it felt right for both of us. The actual experience was eye-opening. It wasn’t just physical, we had conversations, played games where he’d quiz me on my behavior or decisions, and it made me feel like a child again but in the best possible way. I got to be carefree and obedient without any worries about adult responsibilities weighing me down. Afterwards though, I found myself questioning whether this was normal. Is everyone who tries DDLG feeling as conflicted as me? It’s intense, exhilarating, and at times a bit scary, but overwhelmingly positive too. Am I the asshole for wanting to delve deeper into something that feels so foreign yet right? I appreciate any advice or perspectives you might have. How do other people handle such shifts in their dynamics? Is there anything specific you recommend reading up on or discussing with your partner further before moving ahead? Thank you, and I look forward to hearing from those who relate.