A Military Mom's Secret Discipline

I'm the military wife and mommy type who secretly craves to be my husband's little one sometimes. It started as a playful way to unwind after deployment stress, but it grew into something more meaningful for both of us. He calls me 'Baby,' tucks me in at night like I’m still eight, and lets me wear childish outfits around the house. There’s a power dynamic where he sets strict rules I have to follow while he’s away, chores done on time, no sneaking out, but it leaves room for rewards too, like extra snuggles or special treats. How do you handle balancing fun kinks with family duties? What’s your advice for keeping this kind of thing discreet around kids and in-laws?