confession from a little

so yeah i started getting into ddlg stuff last year and its been pretty intense. my dom is this really strict guy who runs the show totally but it gets weird sometimes bc he can be super serious about things like chores or cleaning, which is kinda funny cause i feel like a kid doing all that when hes supposed to take care of me lol. anyway we had a session yesterday and hes talking abt setting up some kind of punishment if i dont keep my room neat. its making me question whether this is healthy. anyone have thoughts on if it goes too far? or am i just overthinking everything?